Throwing a Feast the “Proper” Way (aka, Your Way)

This guide takes the drama out of formal table settings, turning it into a fun, creative affair. Mix and match, unleash your inner artist, and let the food and laughter flow. Even mismatched china and DIY centerpieces are welcome.

Throwing a Feast the “Proper” Way (aka, Your Way)
From butlers to buffet bars: the ultimate guide to unconventional dining experiences.

Forget stuffy etiquette manuals and Pinterest boards that make you want to throw in the napkin and order takeout. Setting a formal table doesn't have to be a white-gloved ordeal reserved for stuffy aristocrats (although, if that's your jam, go forth and flourish!). This is your guide to creating an elegant dining experience that's as much fun as it is impressive, even if your idea of “formal” involves mismatched silverware and a tablecloth inherited from Grandma Edna.

First things first: Ditch the idea of one “right” way. Formal table settings, like accents on a pair of fabulous shoes, can vary depending on the occasion and your personal flair. Think of it as creating an atmosphere, not just laying out plates like poker chips. Channel your inner interior designer and let your theme shine through, whether it's a Midsummer Night's Dream garden party or a Gatsby-esque soiree. Now, let's get down to brass tacks (or should I say, silver forks):